Mon chéri: 4/1/11

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Hating on LA

Something that really bothers me are people who hate on LA for no reason at all. If you have lived here for 5-10+ years, then I completely respect whatever your opinion of LA might be because you obviously have enough reason and experience to validate your opinion. It just bothers me when the following people hate on LA:

Never lived here
Hear and believe stereotypes about LA (ei: the assumption that those who in LA are lazy, ignorant, obsessed with their looks and materialistic)
Took the bus to LA to pursue their dreams for a year or so then headed back home

Maybe people just don't want to like Los Angeles just like how most people outside of Cali don't like the Lakers. Listen, I'm not one to preach to anyone- Do whatever you want, feel however you feel, act however you want to act- I will never judge. It's okay to judge me and\or people who live in LA though? - Just take a moment to really think about it.

--again-- typed this really fast and didn't proof read so my apologies for the spelling errors/ grammatical errors. Please blame it on me, not because I live in los angeles. :)

Just a random thought that kept popping into my head at the gym this morning so had to get it out.

~SHJ

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Why Do Girls Date Workaholics? Why are YOU in YOUR relationship?

My Thoughts:

Why do girls like to date guys who are of power yet pay them no attention to them? Do they feel more powerful in dating someone of stature? Do they feel that in being with them their own self-worth increases? I honestly don't understand it...I'm specifically referring to girls who date guys who pay more attention to their work then their own happiness/sex drive. - sorry just being honest. I don't understand what these women think these one way relationships will evolve to. If it fulfills their happiness and feeling of self contentment, then by all means, carry on...if not...take a hard look at WHY you are with somebody...and HOW being with them improves YOUR life and YOURSELF as a person...
Sometimes we forget who actually comes first...just a thought.

- I typed this fast and didn't re-read it so I apologize in advance for any spelling/grammatical errors.

~SHJ

Quote of the Day: Live while you're dying

"First I was dying to finish high school and start college. Then I was dying to finish college and start working. Then I was dying to get married and have kids. Then I was dying for my kids to grow old enough to start school so I could go back to work. Then I was dying to retire. Now I'm dying and I realize I forgot to live."